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Are  you currently in a relationship or is the Lord good to you (single)? Winks.

Not all men cheat but most men cheat! Being cheated by someone you love very dearly can be very devastating. If you get cheated on, you are likely to suffer enormously.

Can you imagine how it must feel when a person gets cheated and lied to by their partner, with whom they had dreamt to spend their entire lifetime? Very devastating right!!!

Have you ever wondered why the same person you love and claims to love you still turns against you by cheating on you even after all the “I love you promised he made to you”  why do people cheat on the one they claim to love? Some basically is to satisfy thier selfish desires for sex while some just got carried away by false emotions.

Some men do not really cheat but once their partner cheats on them they just want to revenge by doubling thier own cheating while some cheat because of heatbreak just to feel loved and better.

In our world today, men are most likely to cheat even more than the ladies, it’s not like the ladies do not cheat, they do!! But the ratio with that of the guys is 5 : 9. Do you know that low self-esteem can cause you to be very dependent on the attentions of others instead of being independent and in some other cases, the attention of just one person is never enough. A guy can hardly be with a lady without wanting to touch other girls lives (cheat). Some guys believe that ladies like money or flashy things,  thereby even when they have an official girlfriend or lover, they still want to  show their capacity on another lady by cheating.

These may  cause you as a person to feel very insecure in your own relationship, so much so that you might cheat as a way of rejecting rather than being rejected or as a way of getting back at your partner.

Do you know that if men are not sexually satisfied (for instance, if their partner declines them of  sex often), they take that rejection to heart, and it can easily make them to want to cheat.
What is the main cause of cheating?
A simple desire to have sex can equally motivate some people to want to cheat. Other factors may also include;  unmet sexual needs, may also play a part in infidelity that’s motivated by desire. But someone who wants to have sex might also look for opportunities to do so without any other motivators.
Why do you cheat on someone you love?
yes we know that it is scientifically possible to feel a deep attachment to a long-term partner at the same time, you feel an intensed romantic love toward someone else and, at the same time, feel sexual attraction toward another person.” Our feelings too can be complicated but I is your duty to guild your heart deligently.
What do you understand by having an affair with someone? 
Many people in a relationship are having an affair outside tho Relationship. Why?
An affair simply is  generally a sign that things are not right with someone’s relationship. Without the necessary or strategic  skills to heal or solve  this relationship issues, a partner may engage in an affair as an ill-equipped way of attempting to have their needs fulfilled which is very wrong. They do these  either for intimacy, to feel valued, to experience more sex, to continue their exploration and so on.
  • Men cheat because they chose to cheat.
  • Men cheat because of a certain desired sexual adventure.
  • They cheat because they seem to find love and attention.
  • They cheat because they sometimes have an intimacy disorder.
  • They cheat because of their lack of maturity to investing their time, effort, energy and commitment.
  • They cheat because they feel ashamed about their Desire for sex.
  • They cheat because they really need their ego stroked.
  • They cheat because of their sexual addictions.
  • Etc
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Nice one…


Girls can make a man cheat. Being in relationship where your not respected , or a relationship your being compared to often to another person, either material , or physical can bring a man’s self esteem down and worth, making him seek comfort and value outside while still maintaining his current relationship cause he can’t find foot or hold on how to leave.


Nice article, Ozzy.

I’m a guy, and I think your thoughts are very much on point.

It’s kinda of a natural thing for the male to want to be polygamous.


Because it’s in our blood
Thank you 🥺


God bless you for your honesty


Honestly, even if we seriously love one.. at some point, our natural urge for God’s beautiful creatures step out

Ridwan Emiola

Cheating ‘ear n dear’ 😂
You did well Ozzy! I personally do not think I can cheat on my partner sha.

May God help us. But in all, your points are valid !


Nice one mercy


No reason is enough…. Ashawo just dey their body

Nwanolue Chinenye

I think you are right 👌

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