Have you ever felt as though the person you like, does not even like you? That feeling can really be dissapointing and heartbreaking.
We live in a world where you will see a lady /guy forcing herself/himself on a guy/lady that doesn’t even feel for her/him not to talk of liking her/him , and the outcome is always heartbreaking.
Why on Earth will I know you don’t like me and you expect me to still want to stick with you? No o!!! I can’t! I love myself so much and anything or anyone that will stress me emotionally, I try as much as possible to avoid them o. You can do the same and trust me, you will definitely get to meet someone you will like and he/she will reciprocate perfectly.
Does your “friend ” or “crush” seem to act lukewarm whenever he or she is around you? Have you been trying to spend time with a group of friends that often give you this cold shoulder and cold vibes?
If you are trying to form a bond with someone who just is not into you, then you are wasting your precious and sweet time and your giving heart.
No one wants to spend their lives building relationships that is doomed from the start. That may sound pessimistic, but it is actually very true. If you separate the people who are not super excited about spending time with you, and focus your time and energy on those who do, you will not only have better friendships, but you will save yourself from heartbreak in the process.
How do you know if someone is keen on spending quality time with you? Keep reading because they all will be listed below.
Do you know some people are just around you due to habit, circumstance, or duty? They might feel they owe you a favour of being around you. You may also suspect that someone is not vibing with you, but you can pick up on some subtle cues to know for sure before you get your heart broken.
If you are having a feeling that someone is hanging out with you just for their selfish interest, or for a wrong reasons or Maybe they just don’t value the relationship as much as you do. Then you really need to be very sensitive and sure so you would know what to do next and how to deal with them.
HOW DO YOU KNOW IF SOMEONE DOES NOT LIKE YOU?
- They just don’t look at you into the eyes and they find this difficult.
- They always tend to ignore you when you talk or discuss with you.
- They always try to avoid you by giving you excuses of being busy doing one or two.
- They constantly argue with you blindly which can piss you off.
- They seem not interested in anything that concerns you anymore.
- They don’t invite you nor take you out and if you eventually ask them to hang out with you, they just give you excuses.
- They don’t open up to you, you might even be the one that will constantly open up to them but they never reciprocate.
- You just feel it that they don’t like you.
- They make you feel really akward anytime you are with them.
- They never listen to you for any reason whatsoever.
- They never make plans with you.
- They hardly touch you like hugging you, hitting you jokingly or even kicking you as friends or lovers do.
- They are just too serious with you even when you are joking with them.
- Your conversation with them seems too cold and shallow.
- They no longer carry you along in any affairs of theirs.
- Even when they wronged you they just find it difficult to appologize instead they expect you to do the apologizing.
- They operate like NEPA light in your life, ON and OFF!! Which can be heartbreaking because they are never there when you need them the most.