Have you ever come across a stingy guy before?
He might be very handsome but still he doesn’t like spending on you. One mistake you must’nt make is allowing him to fool you or you thinking you can change him along the line, if he is stingy, my sister run for your life!!!!
Some guys enjoys demanding for sex from their girlfriend everytime they see but when it comes to spending on them, they just make empty promises to you. You will hear him say ” i am having issues with my bank”, ” i will do the transfer tonight and you will wait for 1week before he will eventually do it or he will be like, wow you are so independent!! etc. But It is not supposed to be so.
Have you ever been in a situation where you just ask yourself “why is this guy so stingy? Well some guys are naturally stingy and they know they are but yet they feel it is part of their defensive measures when It comes to handling women while some are ignorant of that.
Just as our finger differs they say, so is the guys in our life even as a lady but as a guy must you be the shortest finger?
How can a guy be dating a lady for over a year or less or even more that without spending on her, not even trying to send her airtime or even pay some of her bills. I know alot of guys likes it when their woman Is independent but you shouldnt let it be too obvious.
You will hear a guy say ” Girls too like money” abeg my brother, if she no like money, wetin she wan like before? Your face abi na your head? Abegggiii. A lady have to look beautiful, healthy, sexy and presentable. She has to wear good clothes, make her hair, and do some other stuffs and you think she doesn’t need money? Nooooo she extremely does.
Do you know that even as a lady, no matter how rich you can be, only a guy spending on you is very comforting. Yes!! Ladies enjoy spending a guys money or rather a guy spending on her even if she is not broke. But if she is broke and you as a guy stood for her, she sees you as her confidaint.
As a guy, when last did you send your baby money?
When last did you send her airtime?
When last did you take her to the salon to make her hair or fix her nails?
When last did you take her for shopping? Or even for a date?
I guess you are happy that your girlfriend is not always asking you for assistant but have you thought of assisting her even with her independency?
Have you thought of ” what if another guy is outhere ready to give to her whatever she wants, do you think she will reject all because she loves you? My brother, As a man, you just have to play your role as her man.
A GUY THAT IS NOT STINGY ;
- He will always take interest in your wellbeing.
- He Is always there to help you make the right decision.
- He always goes out of his ways just to help you and he always considers your emotions and feelings.
- He will always want to look out for you no matter what.
A GUY THAT IS STINGY;
He is always happy when you don’t /never ask him for money or anything.
- He doesn’t buy you gifts and he complains if he sees you with any gift that was given to you by another.
- He always wants you to spend on him, you take him out and pay his bills and he feels comfortable enjoying your money. Dinner/lunch is always on you and not him.
- He barely spends on you and he always want to calculate all his expenses.
- His wardrobe is not even impressive.
- He rarely take you out but if he does, both of you always split the bills and he knows the cheapest resturant around his area.
- He complains about virtually everything.
- He see the pleasures of goodies as vanity.
- He is a penny pinches. A.k.a akagum.
- If you na see his car ehnnnn you will be convinced that he is truely stingy.