RESISTING THE URGE TO SHALAYE.
RESIST THE URGE TO SHALAYE.
What If you were accused wrongly of something you knew nothing about, do you resist the urge to Shalaye? Or you just start to Shalaye?
Shalaye is a verb in Youruba language which literally means “to explain”. Resist the urge to Shalaye literally means to resist the urge to explain.
Do you know that sometimes, to Shalaye can be very stressful! You are trying to convince someone whose mind is already made up. Why not just resist the urge the Shalaye and save yourself the stress.
You don’t resist the urge to shalaye in all occasion, there are exceptions to this resistance. For example, lawyers don’t have to resist the urge to Shalaye when defending their client, nor a Project student, he/she needs to Shalaye just to make good grades.
When Shalaye-ing you encourage more unnecessary arguments and complications, so why not just resist that urge to Shalaye such as you resist the devil.
To resist the urge to Shalaye can serve as a damage control in some vital cases. Assuming you were a public opinion to be accepted by everyone around you, then you will want to always Shalaye.
Even in relationships, you need to resist the urge to shalaye sometimes because if for example both parties are mad at each other, to start Shalaye-ing will only complicate or create more drama, instead just resist the urge to Shalaye.
Resist the urge to unnecessary explanations, if you have to say a “Yes” just say it with honour, respect, great value and resist the urge to Shalaye.
Atimes you want to Shalaye just to prove a point, but to save yourself from bad energies, just resist that urge. When you resist the urge to Shalaye, you become more reserved.
When you are angry, and you really need to Shalaye, dont speak at that moment, let your temper be moderate so you wont end up saying it all wrong.
You should be guided, patiently select your words even If you really need to Shalaye. Dont let your Shalaye-ing put you in trouble.