Feeling like this can make it really difficult to have much faith in your future together and can sometimes leave you wondering whether the easiest solution would be to break up. No, breakup is not the easiest solution.

You can actually prevent your heart from going through such heartbreaks and stress. A good relationship is when you are with someone who knows your insecurities, imperfections and flaws but still loves you for who you really are.

Insecurities can begin to have visible negative effects in other areas of your life. Your self-esteem and confidence can become undermined. Insecurities kills your self esteem and this can make it difficult to be able to address any of your relationship problems.

Feeling insecure in your relationship can lead to unhappiness for both partners. You find out you get upset at every little thing, you become paranoid over nothing. Insecurities in a relationship can be destructive and a can act as a quick way to sabotage potential relationship happiness.

When you constantly feel insecure in the solidity of the relationship, your partners suffers also.


How do you know you are feeling insecure in your relationship?

  • You will have trouble trusting your partner.
  • You will become unnecessarily paranoid.
  • You will always compare yourself with your partner’s ex’es
  • You lack self acceptance. You will always want your partner to make you feel important even when you know you are.
  • You feel disconnected from your partner.
  • You read unnecessary meaning to whatever your partner says.


  • Trust your partner first.
  • Work on your self-esteem.
  • Stop overthinking, let go of every negative thoughts.
  • Always stay relaxed and keep things relaxed.
  • Don’t reley on your partner to make you feel important.
  • Always listen to your partner.
  • Plan and pick the right moments.
  • Stop thinking its all about you(self-centered), because it is not.
  • Stop being paranoid over nothing.
  • Stop putting off uncomfortable conversations.
  • Control your emotions, you can do it!!!!

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