BEING THE OTHER WOMAN.
Have you ever felt like being a guys side chick? I mean the “OTHER WOMAN” Yes i once felt that way, infact i was once a side chick to a guy who never dated me. As at that period, i enjoyed being the other woman(side chick) simply because i got all the good parts of a relationship even without having to be in an actual relationship.
Being the other woman is your choice. Do you know a lot of women are willing to be a Side chick even knowing that the guy has his main chick and they are very comfortable with it. But why ?
What exactly is the reason why they are comfortable being the other woman? The major reasons why a lady would want to be your side chick is because of;
- Attention and love
- Gone to far with you to want to stop(too late to stop).
If you start a relationship being the other woman, you will never be the only woman and there are rules to being the other woman; never forget you are number two. And he might have other side chicks. Since he feels like a sugar daddy to all of them including you.
“He said he would break up with her soon” that was exactly what He told me for 3years ago. He finally broke up with her and still he never asked me out! He went ahead and asked another lady out. I cried, felt heartbroken but it never mattered to him because i wasnt the main chick. Well i brazed up and said to my self “sweetheart, you are too beautiful to be anyone’s side chick.
A side chick’s main responsibility is to keep things fun and exciting. Even as a side chick, you act uninterestedly interested. No full strings attached.
Are you comfortable being the other woman? No! Quit!! Instead use that energy and time to get your own main man. Dont waste your time, energy, resources, love, etc on a guy that is not ready to make you his.
Why not just stop boasting about being someone side chick, he has no good intentions with you, he has no goal with you, no future but he would rather get quality SEX from you and making you happy to a short term all for his selfish intrest.
You are too beautiful and unique to be the other woman. But if you feel so comfortable being the other woman, here are some tips.
HOW DO BECOME A BETTER SIDE CHICK?
1. Always look your best for him.
2. Dont let him get bored.
3. Give him enough space and make him miss you like crazy.
4. Nevet argue with him.
5. Let him be the one calling you, dont call him.
6. Pretend to be unintrested of his main chick.
7. Make him think he is the only one.
8. Dont stalk him.
9. Always be ready to satisfy him even more than his main. Be crazy with him and let him feel your vibes.
10. Cook good meal for him, both physically and sexually.
But sweetheart, if you dont want to be the other woman, open up to him, talk to him and reason well with him. Tell him to make you his main or nothing! If he truly loves you like he claims, he will not hestitate to make you his! Dont let him sweet talk you.
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