MAKING LOVE AND HAVING SEX.
You must have been familiar with these words “making love” and “having sex”. Do you know they are two different things? But there is a connection to both, which is “SEX”. Today what most couples or love birds do is “having sex” instead of making love.
But how do you know if you are making love and not just having sex?
Making love means letting somebody in, giving your heart, soul and body to another person which is always very risky and not everyone is ready to do that. But what is worth the risk if not love?
A hearty and fulfilling sex life has a little of both making love and having sex. Infact it is hard to differentiate the two but the major difference is hidden in the level of intimacy.
Having talked about love and sex, you get to find out that love makes sex more intresting and fufiling. When it comes to having sex, there is an intimacy which has to do with joining your physical needs and body parts with your partner, while making love is more about connection. You tend to connect your body, heart and soul through this act of making love.
Do you know that when your partner is making love to you, its always different when they are having sex with you?
When he/she is making love to you, he/she Is usually nicer,sweeter and gentle with is words. He/she maybe whisphering sweet nothings into your ear. During love making, He tends to make you feel like a real woman and with that you feel loved and cherished.
But if he/she is just having sex with you, he/she talks roughly, dirty and maybe just make you feel excited but not necessarily loved or cherished. Love making and having sex around two different approach to sex.
HOW DO YOU KNOW YOU ARE NOT JUST HAVING SEX BUT MAKING LOVE?
1. THE CHOICE OF POSITION: Your choice of position makes It all different. If you just started a relationship newly and the first position your partner prefers is ” doggy”, then he/she just having sex with you. He/she should do a whole lot of “missionary, cow girl” and any sex position that involves looking at each other.
2. THERE IS A LOT OF LOOKING INTO EACH OTHERS EYES DURING SEX. If he/she doesn’t look at you deeply during sex then its just SEX.
3. LOTS OF KISSING ( he kisses every part of you). He/she enjoys kissing you from your head to your toe. And he/she makes you smile.
4. SWEET TALKS AND DIRTY TALKS.( your partner Is not nervous).
5. YOUR PARTNER COMMUNICATES WHILE MAKING LOVE TO YOU. He/she speaks more with you while having you. He/she tries to know if you are enjoying it or you are in pain!
6. YOUR PARTNER IS MORE FOCUSED ON SATISFYING YOU FIRST.
7. YOUR PARTNER TAKES IT SLOW: When he/she is into you, he/she will take his time to enjoy every moment with you. There Is a foreplay before making love, he undresses you slowly and pets you.
8. HE CUDDLES YOU AFTER SEX. Cuddling is the best thing to do after making love.
9. HE STAYS WITH YOU EVEN WHEN YOU DONT WANT SEX. How many men can do that?
10. YOU ARE HAPPY. ( There is no acting between you guys, just complete honesty).
Your happiness is key!!
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